Dear WINMLC Members: Did you know that you don't have to actually forgive your spouse for the affair? That's right. At least not yet. Because of the heavy burden society puts on us, the word forgiveness has almost lost it's value. The word is almost overwhelming. Do you have to forget in order to forgive? What if you cannot forget? What if you can't forgive? Not to mention there can be so much personal guilt someone feels when they can't forgive because of the pressure we feel. That's why I am going to show you what forgiveness really means and the healthy steps to take to really achieve it. (when you're ready.) Even if you don't feel "ready" I want you to consider this method right now because it could be what saves you from a divorce. If you feel stuck, and your spouse is getting annoyed because you "just won't forgive," then I may have new research that may help you. This is new research I've been testing within the last 10 years and it really works. After 30 years of counseling I run into very heavy cases. I've helped thousands of people move past an affair but not before they hit the issue of forgiveness. For many it appears to be a brick wall, mostly because they don't know what to do. That is why I've developed a new program that is designed to help you get through the pain of the past more quickly by showing you a strategy for working towards forgiveness. This is a unique method that most counselors have never considered. What I do is show you how to deal with the offense head on through a unique method called cognitive behavioral therapy. That means overcoming your overwhelming feelings that won't go away, haunting images and obsessive thoughts. I've spent a decade outlining my findings so that you can have a blueprint. And not long ago I put together my program into a 57 page guide along with an hour and 24 minutes audio tutorial. Both of these can be downloaded right from my site. A significant part of doctoral training is learning about personality. Psychologists are trained in normal and abnormal aspects of personality and the development of personality-including factors that affect it in both good ways and bad. This training, when combined with over 30 years of experience, gives me an immense database of problems and solutions. Some marriage counselors are passive while a few are more directive. I am directive. I don't just sit back and watch people fail. I believe it is important to work out your marriage relationship. Because I am "pro-marriage" I don't consider what I do a success unless I help you make your marriage better than it ever was and AVOID DIVORCE. And that is why I want you to learn these principles and save your marriage. Please do me a favor. Get the program, take an hour to go through it and then send me an email and let me know what you think. I believe marriage partners should be best friends to each other and not treat each others like enemies and that is the promise of all my programs. Let me show you how. Use this link now: Warm Regards, Dr. Frank Gunzburg P.S. This course is requred for any of my clients who've experienced an affair. It just works.
